Find Out & Use What You Have
Today I read my email from the Kingston MFRC about giving parents time (a true gift) and programs available, I have had the priveledge of posted to Petawawa (yes, I said it) and have been on bases across North America from Fort Drum to Mayport Navel to Nellis Air Force bases. We were often able to visit or use a number of facilities and each time we went we were warmly greeted and the same comments were made at each place we visited – “If only more people would use us…”, “A lot of people don’t know we are here…”, “We struggle to get people to come and use our services”. When we lived in Petawawa I was always surprised that the pool wasn’t crowded or that the tennis courts weren’t used. I also had little difficulty booking same day daycare (free daycare) to go grocery shopping or just go home and sleep. I know first hand that moving, going through a deployment or military life in general can drain the life right out of you. It often feels easier to stay at home and hunker down but what I have discovered is that in the long run it is a lot easier to make the most of where you are and have an adventure or two.
* Find out what is on your base or in your community
* Ask your neighbours
* Walk or drive around the base/town and check things out (we drove around and found one of the most impressive parks with play equipment most schools can only dream of having)
* Go to your local library or schools and find out about the events happening in your community
* Ask your family about the kinds of things they would like to do or participate in and then ask around about how to get involved or sign up
* Visit the local stores and look at the postings people or organizations have put up (I am usually the type to walk right by with the single minded purpose of getting what I came for).
* Local coffee shops and restaurants have advertising for camps and deployment information
* Read the newsletters or local newpaper to get ideas of things to do in your community – the busier I am doing things the easier the deployment is for myself and my children
Make sure that you are well aware of all the things your community has that can support you. Take a few minutes and you could end up saving yourself time and energy.
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