Read to your children – Tip #449
Being an educator and mother, I am a avid reader and especially of children’s books. They don’t have to say the words deployment or military to be well suited to military families, educators or support personnel. I am not suggesting that you go out and spend a lot of money and buy all of these but most of them will be in your children’s schools or at your local library. I highly recommend ending each day with a book as there are some strong and important messages that you can give to your children through these books – one of the most important is the message you will pass onto them when you drop everything for them and take the time to enjoy a good book. Here are my top choices…
Great books for reading and recording onto your computer, IPOD or CD by a family member who is leaving:
* Gregory, the Terrible Eater – Mitchell Sharmat
– It tells the story of a goat that loves healthy, human food and his parents aren’t happy. If you have a fussy eater this is a perfect read!
* I Love You Stinky Face – Lisa McCourt
– A book that teaches children about unconditional love. You could finish it off with telling them that there is nothing they could do or be that you would stop loving them for and time or distance won’t change it.
* The Berenstain Bears Get the Gimmies – Stan and Jan Berenstain
– A timeless classic of shopping with your children. A good one to remind them about appropriate behaviour even when you are away.
* Some Things Are Scary (No Matter How Old You Are) – Florence Parry Heide
– A great book to talk about everyone having fears and it would be a good chance for you to share what you do when you are worried or scared.
* I Love You, Little One – Nancy Tafuri
– It is the perfect book to tell your child you love them and why
Great Books for Reading to Them At Night to remind them of their own strength and courage:
* Oh, the Paces You’ll Go – Dr. Seuss
– This book will remind your child that even though they haven’t left home they are on their own journey
* The Giving Tree – Shel Silverstein
– This book demonstrates how the gift of giving can affect people and things
* Today I Will Fly – Mo Willems
– It is a good book for teaching your child about never giving up and persevering even when you don’t do things the way you’d planned.
* Little Beaver and The Echo – Amy MacDonald and Sarah Fox-Davies
– It tells the story of a lonely beaver who finds friends when he is looking for someone that doesn’t exist
* Imagine A Place – Sarah L. Thomson
– This book is perfect for sitting and looking at together and talking about what you see and why or why not it could be possible or impossible.
* David Gets in Trouble – David Shannon
– He has written an easy to read book about admitting when you have done something wrong and being loved anyway.
# 1 BOOK FOR READING TO YOUR KIDS BEFORE THEIR FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL:
The Kissing Hand – Audrey Penn
– I challenge you to find a better book to read to your children before their first day of school. I have been reading this book to my children every year since Kindergarten. It is about a mother raccoon and her child having to be separated but only physically. If there was any book in this list to buy… this is it!
Books to Discuss Friend Or Self Esteem Issues:
* The Ordinary Princess – M.M. Kaye
– A book that teaches the reader that there is no such thing as ordinary
* The English Roses – Madonna
– A story about accepting and having friends not only for the things you have in common but the things that make you different
* My Secret Bully – Trudy Ludwig
– In my opinion, the best book published that talks about the ways girl’s bullying and treat eachother.
* Just Kidding – Trudy Ludwig
– In my opinion, the best book for boys about the way they treat each other and then call it a ‘joke’.
* The Dot – Peter H. Reynolds
– The story of a boy that learns from his teacher that he is capable of anything if he just tries.
* Scaredy Squirrel Makes A Friend – Melanie Watt
– There is a bunch of these Scaredy Squirrel books now and they all deal with overcoming your fears so that you can discover the world. They do it with humour and fun.
I hope you enjoy all of these as much as I have and would welcome your recommendations too.
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