Lists to Motivate – Tip #180
These ideas could be on your fridge door, bathroom door, kitchen door, or any space that you will see each morning before your day really gets into action. The idea of creating a motivational list is to get your family or yourself thinking positively and re-affirming thoughts and emotions that help you to feel stronger and positive. Each family member could have their own poster or page with their own list of daily tasks. All of the tasks on the short list (5 max.) should take only a few seconds to a minute to complete. You could have a whole family list or have each family member create their own list. I used a list similar to the one below when my husband was deployed.
Everyday tasks, While You’re Away
Tell someone that I love them
Say something I like about myself
Do something for someone else
Take a picture
Find something to laugh about
Set a goal for myself to do today
Name 5 things that I am grateful for
The idea behind the list being quick and easy to complete is to get yourself motivated to do things each day that are going to make you and those you love and care about feel good and live your life the best ways that you can without taking a lot of energy or precious time.
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