Keeping Yourself Busy – Tip #426
Many people who have written or spoken to me about this. They have a lot to say about my tip #7 – “Keep Busy” from my book. Of course, I should have written “Keep Busy With the Things That You Love or Make You Feel Better About Life In General”. Most of us have no problem being busy (there are always things like; laundry, dishes, phone calls, appointments, work, birthdays, etc.) but it is what we are filling our time with that we need to be mindful of. Keeping busy doesn’t mean watching TV for hours on end (living someone’s real or imaginary life), doing piles of laundry or running errands for other people.
The point is that you find something that you really enjoy and go for it. Surf the internet for ideas and suggestions and then look to see what is offered in your area. Make sure it is easy to get to and works with your schedule. Keep busy with things that you enjoy doing as well as all the other things that life throws your way.
Until recently, I had always thought of myself as someone who really wasn’t a big hobby person. I had tried scrap booking, stamp collecting, coin collecting, making various crafts, etc. all without being able to really stick with it for very long. I have now realized that I just hadn’t found something that I was passionate about. I now realize that most people who have a hobby, whether it is flying mini-planes, mountain climbing, going to air shows, are into car racing or comic book conventions, scrap booking, etc. are passionate about it. They got lost in time and in the moment and really enjoy it. I have fallen in love with pottery and two hours each week will go by without me thinking about my work, issues with the kids, lunches for the next day, appointments, laundry, the overgrown lawn, etc. It is the place where I lose myself and it feels so good. Everyone needs to keep busy by being lost in something for at least a part of their week if not a part of their day. So… think about all the things that you have an interest in or at one point in time have thought that it would be a great thing to try, list them and then make some time to get out there and try them. On many bases there are facilities just waiting to be used and if there isn’t pop into the nearest city or town over and get to their community centre, library, or post office and find out where and how you can keep busy doing something you enjoy and are passionate about.
Some Ideas To Consider:
Stamp or coin Collecting
Sketching/ Art classes
Just to name a few…
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